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Question
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To which part of
man’s existence does affection belong? How can it be strengthen?
Answer :
Affection is a
part of man’s conscience. Conscience is the same as man’s inner
inference, character, and unconscious.
Affection is an
introduction to love and these two dimensions are two
non-materialistic dimensions of man’s existence. Though, the factors
creating affection, signs, impacts, instruments of affection are among
materialistic dimensions of man, but affection itself is not material.
Public call it heart. For instance, a sign of affection to one is a
smile on one’s lips (the material dimension) but affection itself can
not be reflected. Or the factor of affection is a behavior coming from
the beloved and this is a tangible behavior, but affection itself can
not be included in any material criterion. It might be understood by
heart, but its apparent comprehension is not included in material
criteria.
Some of the
people believe that affection can be imagined in one’s mind. But the
writer will not find a convincing reason for this theory. Affection is
an inner eagerness commencing from material aspects and non-material
spirit and will prevail the whole existence. Its impacts will affect
on material dimensions and organs.
Affection is
strengthened in two ways:
1. The proper
reply of the beloved to the lover.
This can be in
two ways:
A. The beloved
resists against the lover, but does it delicately so that she will
increase the flame of passion in his heart.
B. The beloved
obeys the lover and gives positive response to him and tries to treat
him with passion so that his flame of affection is not decreased. For
instance, she will coordinate with him or she expresses passion in her
turn.
2. Paying
attention to the presumptions and imaginations which will increase the
beauty of beloved to the lover.
A lover who will
try throughout his life to reach the beloved and considers in his mind
the moments passing with his beloved, who educates himself to find the
qualification and deservedness to be with his beloved, who thinks
about joining his beloved and considers his prosperity in being with
the beloved, will increase his eagerness.
A heart which is
empty of other beloveds and is only considering a special beloved,
will be heart apt to jointing the beloved. So it shall follow up a
unit goal and should request a unit beloved.
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